Showing posts with label Babies. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Babies. Show all posts

Sunday, June 22, 2008

Okay more on this TEEN PREGNANCY bit

i am taking quotes from this site and i am going to say what i think about it....
17 High School Girls Made Pact To 'Get Pregnant Together'



Parents and adults in the Gloucester community blame broken families and movies like "Juno" and "Knocked Up," which target teenagers, for making them believe that pregnancies are the best thing that could happen to them


Are you kidding me? How can you put this blame on movies. Lets face it. Without proper parenting kids this age are going to do what they want to. The school district is completely embarrassed that 17 females in their school are "Knocked UP". Sometimes no matter how good of a parent you try to be or think you are your kids will do something like this. I do not believe this is a reflection of parents but the area they are around... After all, doesn't that high school have a DAY CARE?

Meanwhile, Mayor Carolyn Kirk, a member of the school committee, has placed some blame on the "hard economic time" the city is going through and stated that the existence of such a pact is "believable, in the sense that it would explain this spike" in teenage pregnancies, referring to the fact that the number of pregnancies were four times as high than last year.


Really? Then these kids know NOTHING about a child. To feed, clothe, diaper and the rest with in the first year is at least 10 grand or more. Not like their parents can afford to help them so i bet they will get on welfare and we will be supporting them. Not that welfare is bad, they should have given themselves a chance to do it right the first time

"It’s the social environment these girls are coming from," added Kirk. "They think that a baby can give them love or give them status or fill an empty space in their life, and these girls are very, very young. And I think if you talk to any teenage mother who is caring for an infant, the road is not easy."


Well when your social environment has a day care that is free and you can still continue your education it all seems pretty easy! I do not believe these kids are going to pay for what they did in anyway RIGHT NOW. They will pay later down the road when they have to worry about day care and so on. Yes, they are young. They are going to think this baby is the only one that can ever understand them and love them. Until 3am when the kid won't sleep and they are up all night getting puked on!!! THATS LOVE!

This trend has somewhat been glamorized in reports prior and on Thursday when Britney Spears's 17-year-old sister Jamie Lynn Spears gave birth to a baby girl.


Yeah so that is true. I really do not think that this is glamorized. She is a celebrity and that is what happens. Look, she went from a tiny 16 year old to a pregnant woman over night. Where is the glamor in that? Kids live in a blurred vision tunnel. These girls wanted 15 minutes of fame. Now they are getting 18 years of guilt, heartache, love, mess, back talking, the works!


For these girls sake I hope they have wonderful pregnancies and that they go on the have healthy babies. Later down the road they will realize it was a mistake. I hope they do not take that out on their children but them selves and push to be the best they can be and not another statistic. These babies deserve a perfect life and the 17 girls need to strive for that.

Friday, April 11, 2008

Granny, Crazy kids, and babies



Granny was diagnosed with cancer about 2 months ago. She started her kemo and has done really good. She has just been really tired. She has kept her appetite and still remained herself with her crazy sense of humor and her wonderful outlook on life. She has been really optimistic about everything, Including her HAIR. She has had that same hair style since i dunno when. I remember it for the longest time. Well today she called and told me that she lost her hair. I dunno why but i had so many questions. I knew that i should have expected it but DAMN. She got herself a wig and i hope that she gets used to it by July. Granny is taking it
really well.
She is so optimistic about everything that i can't not be the same. Granny has been my grandmother, mother, friend, best friend, shoulder to cry on. She is my rock, she is who i look up to. I know she will be okay. She has to see her great grand-babies grow up!





These damn kids are nuts! It is like they gang up on me in their own way. This week was hard Daddy had long days and a duty day that sucked! They didn't give me a break for one second. Also with the new puppy they all have me in circles!!! I love my kids but maybe today I will get a break. The puppy is doing great with potty training and he is very well behaved. I could not
have asked for a better dog. The kids are a bit
rough with him but they will be fine. They just
need to learn that they can't hit him with things
and can't try to drag him in blankets! Maybe
one day he will stand up for himself!




Today was also hard because I went to the hospital to see my friends newborn who is in NICU. It tore me apart. Her son is in the NICU for the same thing E had. He was also born at 36 weeks so they are treating him for preemie and
TTN which is what E had. It really tore me up for many reasons. A baby in NICU is never good. And i can only vision what my son went through when i was recovering myself. It really hurt but i knew that it was the best thing for him.

Info on TTN can be found HERE

Lets have cheers to a Great weekend