The stresses of life....

I am rather stressed about many things in life. I know that we all are and we all tend to deal with it differently.

1 Granny and her cancer.... She has booted her live in bf cause he was a drunk. That is fine. Wonderful actually. Except for some financial benefits that he had. He was not rich but he had a job and helped her pay the house bills. My uncle has decided to go back to school to because a CPA and that is pretty much full time. He lives with Granny. Granny gets a social security check of not much for 2 people. Thank god her house is paid for! I feel that after this lovely vacation (thats another story) that we are going on i should get a night job (another story). At least a job to help with her electric bill.

2 Hubby comes home from work late and it really messes up the schedule of the kids. They are used to eating at about 430 and things cleaned up by 6 and we spend time with them before bed time at 7. When he gets home late that ruins them. They do not want to sleep because they want to spend time with daddy. I understand but sometimes i hate the NAVY!

3 My dog doesn't like my daughter... He has an attitude and likes to pee in her room! i mean it is funny but not at the same time! I am sure when she stops being mean to him he will stop peeing in her room!

4 We are going to Minnesota for a week in August. I really do not mind going there. After all it is hubby family. BUT We were supposed to have a wedding next year in May. We were going to use our tax money and pay for it. But we need to pay off some bills before we do that. We are already married and we are just doing it for family and picture sake. OH and his family believes that if we do not get married we are going to hell. WTF. I believe in God and all that but they are a bit over the top. He has not told his family what is going on and when we get there i am going to get questioned about it. I am not gonna be a happy camper. Why can't he just tell them before we get there? I do not understand. I don't understand the lack of communication with him and his family.

5 A night job... Hubby told me that he doesn't know if he will be able to watch the kids at night while i work. I have not mentioned this to anyone in the family. Granny has done so much for me that i feel like this is the least that i can help her with. The kids sleep at 7 i mean really how hard is it?

6 Back to the vacation... I am really scared and stressed over this Florida trip. I am scared to Fly with Little Dude, the stress of going on vacation. I am sure that i will be fine once it all starts. Oh did i mention i am taking the dog with us on the plane!!! That is if they have not raised the prices for that crap too!


I think that is all my bitching for now. I need to clean. Read some things on how to blog better and go from there.

Who said a shower was so important....

Well for other than hygiene reasons.... I took a break to take a 5 minute shower. I feel such a relief. Like my day can start over again. Today was stressful. Not sure why. Lots going on. Sometimes i just wish that i could put in a leave chit but for some reason when you are a SAHM they do not make that form... Perhaps i should work on that. I have the 2 kids and a fixed dog with a cone on his head. He isn't to happy. I feel like getting Nanna to clean her room is like pulling teeth. What is so hard about that? She is 3. She has to many pricey toys to just toss them out, but what do i do? Take away the TV and she cries clean it for her and she cries cause she knows she is losing stuff. I finally got her room clean after 30 minutes and now she has NO TV.
Little Dude has 4 molars coming in and they are not pushing through. He has been horrid for the last 3 weeks. We got him to a point that he would sleep through the night but i feel like he has back tracked. I am not sure if it is his medications or the fact that he is having trouble breathing in his sleep. He wakes all frustrated and trying to catch his breath. I am not to sure. I know that i am going to be switching all of our PCM so maybe i get a doctor i like. That is on my list of things to do tomorrow... Lets hope that i remember

I guess that is enough bitching about my kids. They are really wonderful... I am just to stressed out to try to analyze what a 3 and 1 year old are doing!!!